16 Phrases to React to Bad News (Not “That’s Terrible”)
“That’s terrible” works, but it can feel flat or over-used. Try these 16 phrases to react to bad news (not “that’s terrible”) and you’ll sound more caring, natural, and supportive every time.
Caring Reactions to Bad News
Casual & Friendly
- Oh no, I’m so sorry. Immediate empathy. “I lost my wallet.” — “Oh no, I’m so sorry.”
- That sucks. Sympathetic, not rude. “My flight got canceled.” — “That sucks.”
- What a nightmare! Shows shock plus concern. “The car broke down at midnight.” — “What a nightmare!”
- You okay? Short check-in. “I slipped on the stairs.” — “You okay?”
- I can’t imagine how you feel. Honors their emotion. “My grandma’s in the hospital.” — “I can’t imagine how you feel.”
- Let me know if you need anything. Offers help. “The fridge died.” — “Let me know if you need anything.”
Polite & Supportive
- I’m here for you. Gentle reassurance. “I got laid off.” — “I’m here for you.”
- That must be really tough. Acknowledges difficulty. “They filed for divorce.” — “That must be really tough.”
- Sending good vibes your way. Modern, kind. “My exam got rescheduled.” — “Sending good vibes your way.”
- If there’s anything I can do, just say the word. Clear offer. “The basement flooded.” — “If there’s anything I can do, just say the word.”
- I’m keeping you in my thoughts. Shows ongoing care. “ biopsy results next week.” — “I’m keeping you in my thoughts.”
- Take all the time you need. Gives space. “I’m not ready to talk.” — “Take all the time you need.”
Calm / Professional
- I’m sorry to hear that. Classic, respectful. “Sales dropped 20 %.” — “I’m sorry to hear that.”
- That’s unfortunate. Softer than “terrible.” “The event got rained out.” — “That’s unfortunate.”
- Let’s see how we can fix this. Moves toward action. “The shipment is lost.” — “Let’s see how we can fix this.”
- We’ll figure it out together. Team spirit. “The funding fell through.” — “We’ll figure it out together.”
Real-Life Dialogues
Friend: My laptop crashed and I lost the file.
You: Oh no, I’m so sorry. Let me know if you need anything—maybe I can help recover it.
Co-worker: They postponed the launch again.
You: That’s unfortunate. Let’s see how we can fix this timeline.
Neighbor: My dog is missing.
You: What a nightmare! I’m keeping you in my thoughts. If there’s anything I can do, just say the word.
Quick Tips: Choosing the Right Reaction
| Situation | Recommended Phrase | Why? |
|---|---|---|
| Friend’s minor mishap | That sucks. | Sympathetic yet casual. |
| Serious illness news | I’m keeping you in my thoughts. | Respectful and caring. |
| Work setback | Let’s see how we can fix this. | Calm and solution-focused. |
Practice Tip
Pick two new reactions and use them the next time you hear bad news—notice how much more supportive you sound!
Why This Matters
- Native speakers avoid repeating “that’s terrible”—variety shows empathy.
- Correct reactions build trust and deeper connections.
- Natural responses boost speaking-test fluency scores.
Choose one new phrase, try it today, and watch your English sound kinder and more fluent. Happy learning! 😊

