15 Phrases for Inviting Someone for a Meal
“Do you want to eat?” works, but English has tastier choices. Master these 15 phrases for inviting someone for a meal and you’ll sound natural, warm, and confident every time you ask.
Common Meal Invitations
Casual & Friendly
- Want to grab a bite? Quick, relaxed. “I’m starving—want to grab a bite after class?”
- Let’s hit the café. Energetic suggestion. “Let’s hit the café for sandwiches.”
- How about some lunch? Simple check-in. “How about some lunch around one?”
- Fancy a pizza? British-tinged, playful. “Fancy a pizza tonight?”
- Come over for tacos. Direct home invite. “Come over for tacos—Tuesday is taco night!”
- Let’s do brunch this weekend. Trendy and fun. “Let’s do brunch this weekend—my treat.”
Polite & Considerate
- Would you like to join me for dinner? Classic courtesy. “Would you like to join me for dinner tomorrow?”
- Are you free for a meal later? Checks availability first. “Are you free for a meal later this week?”
- I’d love to take you out to eat. Warm offer. “I’d love to take you out to eat—any cuisine you prefer?”
- Could I treat you to lunch? Offers to pay. “Could I treat you to lunch for helping me move?”
- Let’s catch up over coffee and cake. Relaxed plus sweet. “Let’s catch up over coffee and cake—my shout.”
- We’d be delighted if you could join us for supper. Gentle formality. “We’d be delighted if you could join us for supper at seven.”
Specific & Creative
- My treat—let’s try that new ramen place. Names venue plus payment. “My treat—let’s try that new ramen place tonight.”
- Game night and wings at my place— you in? Adds activity. “Game night and wings at my place— you in?”
- Picnic in the park Saturday— bring your appetite! Outdoor fun. “Picnic in the park Saturday— bring your appetite!”
- Breakfast burritos on me— fuel up before the hike. Links to next event. “Breakfast burritos on me— fuel up before the hike.”
- Let’s split a dessert after work— my sweet tooth is calling! Light, low-commitment. “Let’s split a dessert after work— my sweet tooth is calling!”
Real-Life Dialogues
Classmate: Want to grab a bite?
You: Sure! Let’s hit the café— their paninis are awesome.
Manager: Would you like to join me for dinner? I’d love to take you out to eat.
You: That’s very kind— Italian sounds great.
Friend: Picnic in the park Saturday— bring your appetite!
You: Count me in! I’ll bring the drinks.
Quick Tips: Choosing the Right Invite
| Situation | Recommended Phrase | Why? |
|---|---|---|
| Quick lunch | Want to grab a bite? | Fast and casual. |
| Business meal | Would you like to join me for dinner? | Polite and clear. |
| Weekend fun | Let’s do brunch this weekend. | Trendy and relaxed. |
Practice Tip
Swap “Do you want to eat?” for “Want to grab a bite?” or “Let’s do brunch” today—notice how natural the answer sounds!
Why This Matters
- Native speakers rarely say “Do you want to eat?”—variety sounds fluent.
- Polite invites build friendships and networks faster.
- Correct phrases boost speaking-test fluency scores.
Choose one new phrase, try it today, and enjoy more shared meals. Happy learning! 😊

